Cheating Spouses- Why They Cheat

People cheat for many reasons. Some like the excitement of seeing how far they can go without getting caught. Some want to go after passion they think is lost. Some feel younger and more attractive with someone on the side. Some feel better about themselves if they can take someone away from another, a little like the grass always looks greener on the other side and some are just scum-bags. I’ve worked as a state licensed private investigator for many years. I have seen things that others have only seen in movies. I’ve been asked many times the same questions number one being, who are your most clients, men or women? My answer is about 50/50 and that hasn’t changed. Second question is, should I feel guilty hiring a PI to check out my suspicions? My answer is again the same which is no. If you have reason to be suspicion, there are probably good reasons why. The third question is usually how long does this type of case take? My answer is always this. The length of an investigation and surveillance depends a lot on what the subject and the lover does. For instance, how often they see the other party, if the other party is married also or single, what type of work they do, how many vehicles they have access to drive and if they are on the road a lot going out of town, and of course many other factors. I’ve had cases that were successful within a few days while others took a few weeks. The length of each case is different. Clients need to keep in mind that it’s not necessarily the length of the case they should be concerned about, but that all evidence is obtained correctly by the PI you hire. Anything else is subject to being thrown out of court. Most all my clients ask the question why are they cheating on me? Stating, I’ve been the best wife/husband I could be. Here’s the thing. It’s not you, it really is them. They are the one cheating. Hold your head up and take the appropriate steps to protect yourself and your children. There is life after divorce. I will end on this truthful fact. Discovery Investigations never had any evidence thrown out of any court. Keep in mind that there is a right and wrong way to obtain evidence. Make sure the PI firm you hire is licensed and has some good years of experience behind them. We gladly provide our clients with references from attorneys and other clients that have used us for many years.
Dollie Mason, LPI